01 · Side by side

Side by side

Comparison sheet
AspectSlayAte
GrammarVerb, also an exclamationPast-tense verb
Mainstream since2010s2020s
Common extension"Slay queen""Ate and left no crumbs"
02 · Which one you meant

Which one did you mean?

In shortReaders who land here meaning Slay rather than Ate are usually searching for phrases like “what does slay mean in slang”, “slay meaning compliment”, “where does slay come from”.

Slay

  • “what does slay mean in slang”
  • “slay meaning compliment”
  • “where does slay come from”
  • “what does slay queen mean”

Ate

  • “what does ate mean in slang”
  • “ate and left no crumbs meaning”
  • “she ate meaning”
  • “what does you ate mean”
03 · Which came first

Which came first

In shortSlay. 1920s — "You slay me" means "you make me laugh hard" (Dictionary.com).

  1. 1920s

    Slay. "You slay me" means "you make me laugh hard" (Dictionary.com).

  2. 5 February 2023

    Ate. Wiktionary's citation for "ate and left no crumbs": Entertainment Weekly on a Saturday Night Live sketch.

04 · The mix-up

Where the confusion comes from

The mix-up“"Ate" is a Gen Z invention.”
What's true

Wiktionary labels it African American Vernacular English and LGBTQ slang, the same communities that gave mainstream English "slay".

05 · Read either one

Read either one in full