Freudenfreude is an English coinage for the pleasure of being genuinely happy about someone else's good news, in circulation since the 1970s and widely known only since 2022 — and it is not a German word.
An anglophone invention. It circulates in English wellness and psychology writing as a manufactured mirror of Schadenfreude. The trail runs through psychologist Catherine Chambliss, whose papers supply nearly every citation of the term, and a November 2022 New York Times article that gave it mass circulation; the earliest use anyone has traced is a 1978 Journal of Behavioral Economics paper by Lee E. Preston. German lexicography still does not carry the word.
// Where it sits
The concept is real and worth having. The word is not German, and Mitfreude already existed.
What it really means
Type Freudenfreude into DWDS, the standard digital dictionary of the German language, and it tells you flatly that the word is not in its present-day lexical sources. It can't define it. All it can produce is an automatically generated grammar table, which helpfully parses the word as Freude + Freude — joy-joy.
That is a citable negative, and it's the whole point of this page. Freudenfreude circulates in English wellness writing as a piece of recovered German wisdom: the Germans have a word for being happy at someone else's happiness. They don't. English made this one and dressed it in German.
The irony is that the concept was never missing. German has Mitfreude — 'joy-with' — which DWDS carries properly, defined as joy someone shares with others, with citations reaching back to at least 1954. It's built exactly like Mitgefühl, fellow-feeling, and it sounds native for the same reason: German makes this kind of word with the prefix mit-, not by saying joy twice.
None of which means the feeling isn't worth naming. It obviously is — the fact that English reached for a word and manufactured one when it couldn't find it says something. It just says it about English.
Where it comes from
Built by taking Schaden out of Schadenfreude and doubling what's left. Genuine German uses the prefix mit- 'with', giving Mitfreude — exactly parallel to Mitgefühl, 'compassion'.
Myths & misconceptions
Freudenfreude is the German word for being happy at another's happiness.
It is not a German word at all. Query DWDS, the standard digital dictionary of German, and it answers plainly that the term is not in its present-day lexical sources. The real German item is Mitfreude, which it does carry with a proper definition and historical citations.
It's an ancient counterpart to Schadenfreude that German has always had.
Backwards on both counts. Schadenfreude is a genuine 16th-century German compound; Freudenfreude is a recent English coinage modelled on it. The borrowing runs English←German for one word and English→pseudo-German for the other.
Compare & contrast
Freudenfreude vs Mitfreude
Mitfreude is the word that actually exists. If you want German for sympathetic joy, this is it — in the dictionary, morphologically normal, and built exactly like Mitgefühl. Freudenfreude is what happens when a concept gets a name from the wrong language.
| // | Freudenfreude | Mitfreude |
|---|---|---|
| In DWDS | No entry | Full entry |
| Built as | Joy-joy | Joy-with |
| Origin | English | German |
| Citations in DWDS | None | Back to 1954 |
How it connects
- Schadenfreudethe genuine German word this one was reverse-engineered from.
- Kummerspeckboth show how much English gets wrong about the German it borrows.
Tell it apart
Questions people ask
- Is freudenfreude a real German word?
- No. DWDS, the standard digital dictionary of German, responds to the query by stating the word is not in its present-day lexical sources, and can only auto-generate a grammar stub. Native German for the same idea is Mitfreude, which does have a genuine entry.
- What is the actual opposite of schadenfreude?
- In German it's Mitfreude — 'Freude, die jmd. mit anderen teilt', joy that someone shares with others — documented in DWDS with examples from the 1950s onward. It's built the same way as Mitgefühl, 'fellow-feeling', which is what makes it sound native where freudenfreude doesn't.
- So should I stop using the word?
- That's your call, and there's an argument for keeping it: English needed a name for this and reached for one. But it's worth knowing that you're using an English coinage rather than borrowing German wisdom — and that the German wisdom you were reaching for exists, spelled Mitfreude.