01 · Side by side

Side by side

Comparison sheet
AspectFremdschämenSchadenfreude
Their failureHurts youPleases you
DistanceCollapsedMaintained
RequiresEmpathyComparison
RegisterColloquialUnmarked
02 · Which one you meant

Which one did you mean?

In shortReaders who land here meaning Fremdschämen rather than Schadenfreude are usually searching for phrases like “secondhand embarrassment word”, “why do I cringe watching other people fail”, “fremdschamen meaning”.

Fremdschämen

  • “secondhand embarrassment word”
  • “why do I cringe watching other people fail”
  • “fremdschamen meaning”
  • “cover my eyes during talent shows”

Schadenfreude

  • “what is the word for enjoying someone's downfall”
  • “schadenfreude meaning”
  • “is schadenfreude bad”
  • “why do I enjoy other people's failure”
03 · Which came first

Which came first

In shortFremdschämen. 2011 — Krach and colleagues publish fMRI work in PLOS ONE explicitly naming the emotion — 'vicarious embarrassment', Fremdscham, embarrassment-by-proxy — and locate it in the anterior cingulate cortex and left anterior insula.

  1. 2011

    Fremdschämen. Krach and colleagues publish fMRI work in PLOS ONE explicitly naming the emotion — 'vicarious embarrassment', Fremdscham, embarrassment-by-proxy — and locate it in the anterior cingulate cortex and left anterior insula.

  2. 2019–2020

    Schadenfreude. Wang, Lilienfeld and Rochat's tripartite motivational model — Aggression, Rivalry, Justice — becomes one of the influential breakdowns, summarised alongside a rival four-type model in a 2020 Frontiers in Psychology study of schadenfreude on social media.

04 · Read either one

Read either one in full