01 · Side by side

Side by side

Comparison sheet
AspectCuffing seasonSituationship
Driven byThe calendarAmbiguity
TimeframeCold monthsAny time
IntentShort-term warmthUndefined
EndsAround springWhen defined or dropped
02 · Which one you meant

Which one did you mean?

In shortReaders who land here meaning Cuffing Season rather than Situationship are usually searching for phrases like “wanting a relationship just for the cold months”, “why do I suddenly want a boyfriend every winter”, “the word for coupling up only in winter”.

Cuffing Season

  • “wanting a relationship just for the cold months”
  • “why do I suddenly want a boyfriend every winter”
  • “the word for coupling up only in winter”
  • “everyone gets into relationships around the holidays”

Situationship

  • “more than friends but not officially together”
  • “we act like a couple but never talked about what we are”
  • “the word for a relationship with no label”
  • “what do you call dating someone without commitment”
03 · Which came first

Which came first

In shortCuffing season. 2008 — Musa Murchison is credited with popularising it on Brooklyn College's Because We Said So Radio — by their own account the phrase was already circulating in New York.

  1. 2008

    Cuffing Season. Musa Murchison is credited with popularising it on Brooklyn College's Because We Said So Radio — by their own account the phrase was already circulating in New York.

  2. 2008

    Situationship. Merriam-Webster's first known use of the word, some years before it spread.

04 · Read either one

Read either one in full